Hoʻohou hope loa ma ʻAukake 15, 2022 e Nā ʻīlio ʻīlio
He ʻano ʻokoʻa ko nā ʻīlio kāne a me nā wahine?
He ʻokoʻa ko nā ʻīlio kāne a me nā ʻīlio wahine? He mea maʻalahi ke aʻo ʻana ma mua o kekahi? He aha ka ʻīlio paʻakikī i ka potty train?
ʻO kēia nā nīnau a pau aʻu e nīnau pinepine ai. No laila, manaʻo wau e kaʻana like i koʻu mau manaʻo ma kēia ʻatikala.
Manaʻo wau e ʻike ʻoe he mea pono ia! Inā he nīnau kāu, e ʻoluʻolu e hoʻouna iā ia ma nā ʻōlelo ma lalo! ʻO ka nīnau mua aʻu, ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ke kaumaha o nā ʻīlio kāne ma mua o nā ʻīlio wahine? ʻO ka pane "ʻae."
He ʻokoʻa ko nā ʻīlio kāne a me nā ʻīlio wahine
ʻO ka nīnau no ka loaʻa ʻana o nā ʻano ʻokoʻa o nā ʻīlio kāne a me nā wahine no ka manawa lōʻihi, akā ʻaʻole ka pane.
ʻOiai he nui ka poʻe e manaʻoʻiʻo nei he ʻoi aku ka pilikanaka o nā kāne, ʻo ka ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻaʻole lākou ʻokoʻa i ke ʻano o kā lākou ʻano a puni nā kānaka.
ʻAʻohe noiʻi ʻepekema e kākoʻo i kēia, akā nui ka poʻe e manaʻoʻiʻo ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā kāne no nā kumu like ʻole. Eia nā kumu ʻekolu.
ʻOi aku ka ʻeleu o nā ʻīlio kāne!
ʻO kahi kumu e makemake nui ai nā wahine i ke aloha a me ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa ʻole ʻia ʻo ia ka liʻiliʻi o ka mana.
Eia kekahi, ʻoi aku ka nui o nā pilikia olakino i nā kāne ma mua o nā wahine. ʻO ka mea e mahalo ai, he ʻokoʻa nā pilikia olakino o nā kāne Kelemānia ma mua o nā wahine.
Eia nō hoʻi, ʻoi aku ka hoʻomaha ʻana o nā kiʻi pōkole wahine ma mua o ko lākou mau hoa kāne. ʻAʻole i kaupalena ʻia nā ʻokoʻa i ka hānau ʻana o nā ʻīlio. He ʻokoʻa wale nō lākou.
E ʻokoʻa ka pane i kēia nīnau ma muli o ke ʻano o ka ʻīlio āu e hāpai nei. ʻOi aku ka maʻalahi o ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana i nā ʻīlio kāne unneutered ma mua o ko lākou mau ʻīlio neutered.
Eia naʻe, ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o lākou i ka huhū. ʻOiai ʻo kēia mau ʻokoʻa, hiki iā lākou ke loaʻa nā ʻano pilikino like ʻole a me nā pono.
ʻOi aku ka liʻiliʻi o ke aloha o nā ʻīlio kāne ma mua o nā ʻīlio wahine, ʻoiai ʻaʻole kūʻokoʻa nā wahine a makemake lākou e ʻoluʻolu i kā lākou kanaka. Hiki i nā wāhine ke hōʻike i nā loli o ka naʻau a me ka hopohopo.
No ke aha i kaulana ai nā ʻīlio wahine i nā mea nona nā ʻīlio?
ʻOiai ʻoi aku ka nui o nā ʻokoʻa kāne o kekahi mau ʻano, ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi o ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o nā kāne a me nā wahine i ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa. Aia kekahi mau ʻokoʻa ʻokoʻa i ka nui.
ʻOi aku ka lōʻihi o nā ʻīlio kāne a ʻoi aku ke kaumaha ma mua o ko lākou mau hoa wahine. Eia nō naʻe, ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi o ka nui o nā ʻīlio kāne i neutered.
Nani a i ʻole kane o nā ʻīlio wahine
No ka naʻau, makemake kekahi poʻe i nā ʻīlio wahine no ka mea ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ke aʻo ʻana ma mua o nā kāne.
Ua nānā kekahi haʻawina i ka hopena o nā hormones i ka hana ʻīlio. ʻO ka oxytocin intranasal a me nā hōʻailona ʻike ʻelua ala e kamaʻilio ai nā ʻīlio. Loaʻa ka ʻokoʻa o kēia ʻano ma nā ʻīlio 'distractibility a me nā mana cognitive.
Ua hōʻike ʻia kahi noiʻi ʻana o nā kahu hipa Kelemania he makemake nui nā kāne i ka pāʻani a ke kanaka. Ua hōʻike ʻia nā hopena o ke aʻo ʻana ua hiki i nā kāne ke aʻo a hoʻohana i nā kauoha a nā mea nona ka wikiwiki.
ʻOiai ʻoi aku ka hoʻolohe o nā wahine, hiki i nā kāne ke kiaʻi maikaʻi i ka home. ʻOiai ʻoi aku ka ikaika o nā wahine, ʻaʻole hiki i nā kāne ke hoʻolohe.
He ʻokoʻa ma waena o ka ʻīlio kāne a me ka wahine
ʻOi aku ka pilikanaka ʻana o nā ʻīlio wahine a ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi o ka hana ʻino ma mua o nā kāne. E hoʻolohe ka ʻīlio wahine i kāu mau kauoha ma mua o ke kāne a ʻoi aku ka liʻiliʻi o ka hōʻeha ʻana i nā keiki a me nā ʻelemakule.
Inā ʻoe e ʻimi nei i ʻīlio hoa no kou ʻohana, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻoholo i ka maʻalahi ma ka mālama ʻana i kēia mau memo.
Hōʻoiaʻiʻo
Lana ko mākou manaʻo ua hauʻoli ʻoe i kēia ʻatikala… He aha kou mau manaʻo ma Kane o na Ilio Wahine?
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