Kugcine ukubuyekezwa ngoJulayi 29, 2024 ngu Izinja Vets
Ukubhekana nokushona kwesilwane esifuywayo osithandayo kungavusa imizwelo ejulile, ngokuvamile uzizwe ujule kakhulu kunokulahlekelwa umuntu omthandayo.Lolu sizi oluyingqayizivele luvela ezibopho ezijulile ezabiwe phakathi kwezilwane ezifuywayo nabanikazi bazo. Ukuqonda nokubhekana nalolu sizi kubalulekile ekwelapheni.
Umthelela Ojulile Wokulahleka Kwezilwane Ezifuywayo
Ukulahlekelwa isilwane esifuywayo kungase kuzwakale njengesenzakalo esibhubhisa umhlaba wonke, kufana nokulahlekelwa umngane oseduze noma ilungu lomndeni. Njengoba uJennifer Golbeck, uprofesa wase-University of Maryland, ephawula, izilwane ezifuywayo zivame ukubhekwa njengamalungu omndeni.
Abantu abaningi bakha ubuhlobo nezilwane zabo ezifuywayo ezingaba ngaphezu kwezihlobo ezingabantu. Lokhu kuxhumana okujulile kungenza usizi lokulahlekelwa isilwane esifuywayo lube lukhulu kakhulu.
Inqubo Yokudabuka Eyingqayizivele
Ukudabuka ngokushonelwa isilwane esifuywayo ngokuvamile kuhilela imizwelo eyinkimbinkimbi. Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi usizi lokulahlekelwa yisilwane esifuywayo lungaba lukhulu njengokulahlekelwa umuntu. Abanikazi bezilwane ezifuywayo bangase bezwe izingqimba ezengeziwe zobuhlungu, njengecala noma umuzwa wokungaqondi kwabanye abangase bachithe ukubaluleka kokulahlekelwa.
Ukuqonda Isibopho
Izilwane ezifuywayo zinikeza ubudlelwano obumakwe uthando olungenamibandela nobulula. Ngokungafani nobuhlobo babantu, obungase bugcwale ukungezwani nezingxabano, isibopho nesilwane esifuywayo siqondile futhi siyanelisa.
Le mvelo engaxakile ingenza ukulahlekelwa kuzwakale kujule nakakhulu. UDavid Freifeld, osanda kulahlekelwa i-bernedoodle yakhe, uRamy, uchaza indlela izilwane ezifuywayo ezingena ngayo ekuphileni kwethu ngothando nokwethenjwa okungantengantengi, zikhulise ubuhlungu bokulahlekelwa kwazo.
Isizungu Sosizi Lwezilwane Ezifuywayo
Ukulahlekelwa isilwane esifuywayo nakho kungaholela ekuzizweni uwedwa. Abangane nomndeni abangenazo izilwane ezifuywayo bangase bangakwazi ukuzwelana, okuholela ekuntuleni ukusekelwa.
Njengoba uMichelle Crossley we-Association for Pet Loss and Bereavement echaza, abanye abantu bangase ngisho bahlangabezane nezinkulumo ezilahlayo ezisikisela ukuthi kufanele “bavele bathole esinye isilwane esifuywayo,” okwandisa imizwa yesizungu.
Ukuthola Ukusekela
Ukufuna ukusekelwa kulabo abaqonda ukujula kokulahlekelwa kwezilwane ezifuywayo kungaba wusizo olukhulu. Amaqembu okusekela usizi lwezilwane ezifuywayo nezinkundla ze-inthanethi abone isidingo esikhulayo, esinikeza izikhala ukuze abantu ngabanye babelane ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo futhi bathole induduzo.
Ukudala izikhumbuzo zomuntu siqu noma amasiko nakho kungasiza ekucubunguleni usizi.
Ukubhekana Necala
Abanikazi bezilwane ezifuywayo abaningi bazizwa benecala ngezinqumo ezithathwe ekupheleni kwempilo yezilwane ezifuywayo. U-Michelle Crossley uphakamisa ukuthi abhalele isilwane esifuywayo incwadi, ezwakalisa ukuzisola kanye neziqinisekiso zenjabulo eyabiwe.
Lokhu kungasiza ekwamukeleni ukulahlekelwa kanye nokuthola isixazululo.
Ukuqhubekela Phambili
Njengoba isikhathi sihamba, ukuhlanganisa inkumbulo yesilwane esifuywayo esilahlekile ekuphileni komuntu kungasiza ekwelapheni. Ukukhumbula izikhathi ezijabulisayo ezabiwe nesilwane esifuywayo, kunokugxila kuphela ebuhlungwini bokungabikho kwaso, kungasiza ekufinyeleleni umuzwa wokuxazulula.
Naphezu kosizi oluqhubekayo, uthando nezinkumbulo zihlala ziyingxenye ebalulekile yokuphila komuntu.
Ukulahlekelwa isilwane esifuywayo kubuhlungu ngokungenakuphikwa, kodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi nokusekelwa, ukuphulukiswa kungenzeka. Izinkumbulo nothando olwabiwe nesilwane esifuywayo zingaqhubeka zinikeza induduzo nenjabulo esikhathini eside ngemva kokudlula kwazo.
Okubhekwayo
- U-Golbeck, J. (2024). Ukuqonda Usizi Lokulahlekelwa Kwezilwane Ezifuywayo. Inyuvesi yaseMaryland.
- Crossley, M. (2024). Ukubhekana Nokulahlekelwa Isilwane Esifuywayo. Inhlangano Yokulahlekelwa Kwezilwane Ezifuywayo kanye Nokushonelwa.
Imibuzo Evame Ukubuzwa
- Kungani ukulahlekelwa isilwane esifuywayo kuzwakala kunamandla kunokulahlekelwa umuntu? Izilwane ezifuywayo zivame ukunikeza uthando olungenamibandela nokuba lula, okwenza ukulahlekelwa kwazo kuzizwe kujule kakhulu.
- Imiphi imizwa evamile eyenzeka ngemva kokulahlekelwa isilwane esifuywayo? Imizwa evamile ihlanganisa usizi olukhulu, umuzwa wecala, nomuzwa wokuqondwa kabi abanye.
- Ngingabhekana kanjani nosizi lokulahlekelwa isilwane esifuywayo? Ukufuna ukwesekwa kubantu abaqondayo, ukujoyina amaqembu okusekela usizi lwezilwane ezifuywayo, nokudala izikhumbuzo zomuntu siqu kungasiza enqubweni yokulila.
Source: Iposi laseWashington
